The Slump

I feel like I fall into a slump a lot.

Not a good thing for someone who wants to host a blog to inspire and uplift.

You see what I'm getting at right?

I need to get out of the rut, 

try something new, make a change.

The introverts are freaking out right now....

I know because I am half introvert and half extrovert.

I basically make things up to suit me. 

I am literally too cool for the English language to describe.

Maybe the French have a cool word I could borrow...

I'm getting off topic because I'm a little afraid to air my dirty laundry out for you to see. 

I don't want people to see me struggle and 

not achieve my goals.

Maybe that is the introvert side.

I don't share my goals so that when I don't get them I'm the only person disappointed.

I'm done with that. 

Back to the slump

I'm stuck in a royal rut. 

Same routine, everyday and 

I don't own enough clothing for it.

I would go shopping to help but I have a hard time finding clothes that I like and look good on me

Also I have a hard time finding money....

Someone is obviously taking it....

So my rut had me thinking, 

Whats the best way to get out of a routine than to shake it up?

Which sent me on the quest of what part of my routine I could fix or change. I can't quit my job (I love it) 

Or school (Not a big fan of this one)

Dance(I like it and the recital is coming)

Which left something I do in my personal time.

Not sleep(Basic human need)

Not IG (I have 3 accounts and I need them)

Not Pinterest(don't even think about it)

I guess that left Netflix.....

The best thing since sliced bread

I usually watch about 4hrs a day of Netflix content. 

Which even for me is way to much and I haven't had the time to read lately and I love to read. I knew my mind needed a jolt and this is where I'm starting. 

No Netflix for one week. 

It is Thursday April 2nd

so until Thursday April 9th 

I will NOT watch Netflix. 

I am using this time to blog, study, read, and sleep.

Although over spring break I kinda got caught up in this book series by my favorite author and read 3 books in 2 days.

They were only about 200 pages each but I read one on a single night. Kinda missed sleeping that night. 

  

Wish me luck!

By -J

What do you do to change up your routine?

Spring Break 2015- The Follow Up

First, let me just say I'm kinda confused 

as to how its 2015 already.

Not only that, its almost the end of March in 2015.

Which brings me to Spring Break, 

I know I already talked about it 

but I thought I'd show what I did.

Technically I don't have spring break this year

 because my classes are online

so the only thing I get a break from is dance classes at night. 

But some of my siblings and friends went 

kayaking on Saturday. 

My Car was so packed!

I don't have pictures of us doing anything because my phone 

wasn't on me. 

A Red Carpet Sweet 16 

And a day in St.Augustine on Monday.

I have a day trip to the beach on the books for Saturday, 

Really hoping for some beautiful weather. 

How is or was your Spring Break?

By -J

HashNO or HashYES? Can I use that Hashtag?

I admit we live in a very online social networking world. 

I'm currently holding a contest on a fan account on IG 

so I understand. 

But I also understand that sometimes people get sucked into the 

latest "fad" and don't realize they sound ridiculous.

I came across the hashtag #widn on my March 

blogger life photo challenge. 

I had to google what it meant. Which reminded me of all the strange things

we use for hashtags. 

So I made a list, which if you haven't noticed or never read any 

of my previous posts is one of my favorite things to do.

1. because it shortens information and you don't have to scour to  find the good stuff.

2. just cause

3. I like ranking things and organizing them into favorites

I realize I just made a list to show how I like making lists.

1. #YOLO

No just No. This is not okay!

2.#WCW or #MCM 

I get it you love your bf or gf (also never use those terms) but you don't need to use the hashtags. instead how about you text/call/tell your person you love them. 

"The best sign of a relationship is no sign of it on the internet"

3. #widn 

Remember when facebook first came out and everyone kind of went crazy

 and posted every minute of everyday on there.

 Like I don't need to know that you are in the bathroom.

what I'm doing now is telling you not to use this hashtag.

4. # OOTD 

I understand famous people use this to showcase designers but 

I just think maybe you could write it out. 

Or be original and come up with something cool.

5. # tagsforlikes, #followme, #instagood, #igers, 

please do not use these to get more followers.

Also do not use hashtags of Facebook. 

Only on Instagram and Twitter. 

Some useable hashtags, 

#hashbrownnofilter - thanks Kimmy 

#selfie -  I like selfies and see how many people you can get in

#family - they are important

#love - use this instead of wcw or mcm

#summer - please brag about summer vacations so I can live vicariously through them

#friends - they are important too, add them in

#netflix - I'm addicted =, I'll admit it. 

#food -  I'm a foodie so bring it on!

By - J 

Be safe with your hashtags!

Spring Break 2015

I know what you are thinking,

Not another person telling all about their awesome 

plans for Spring Break...

Nope my plan, because I have online classes 

and I don't really get a spring break, 

especially with work.

I could ask for the time off and get it but I like work.

And money :) 

But I do have plans to go to the movies at lease once,

get ice cream with friends and visit the beach at least once

and visit my best friend in St. Augustine for the day.

Really not exciting or exotic plans for the week.

So it kind of got me thinking about the people who don't

have the time or resourcing to do something crazy.

Which gave me the idea to share some ideas on easy 

Spring Break ideas.

1. Play Tourist. 

Your local area can be a treasure trove of fun 

visit your online visitors bureau or locate your visitor center and explore. 

2. Girls day.

Local shopping or browsing maybe get your nails done too.

That is on my list of things to do but I'm 

waiting for my nails to grow.

You can also organize a slumber party.

Movies, comfy clothes, maybe some spa treatments.  

3. Day trip.

The price of gas might make you cringe but 

grab some friends and split the cost. 

Set out for a planned day or a day of getting lost.

(Pack snacks or their will be blood) ;)

4. Tour your local restaurants.

This is on my list too.

Set out to eat, eat, eat, 

You don't have to do a full meal

 but ask for drinks and appetizers and try out new places.

5. Museums and Aquariums. 

Art is coming back in a big way.

Street art, pop culture, and even historical are making 

their way into fun chic environments. 

Try out locally or drive to the "big city"

And aquariums are awesome...

Have fun and be safe!

By -J

What are your plans for spring break?

P.S Happy St. Patrick's Day

Beach Creatures Encounters

On my Instagram @by_j.blogger I am participating in a Blogger Life Photo Challenge for the month of March.

Day 12 was post a picture of an animal. 

I chose me holding the stingray I caught at the beach a few years ago. Which reminded me of all the crazy creatures I have seen over the years. 

So today I wanted to share some of my crazy beach adventures. 

Back Story

My parents bought a small condo on the beach when I was 5 and I spent most of my summers there. 

I loved it! still do, its a place where I feel safe and at home.

For years I've been building sandcastles and catching crabs, 

riding biking and fly kites,

making way too many friends count and enjoying when of the

prettiest places ever.

So animal #1 Dolphins

Unfortunately Dolphins have lost some of their magic 

over the years. I've seen them from afar and up close, 

I even watched the mama's teach the little ones to play in the surf. Majestic!

#2 Whale 

My first whale sighting was a remarkable thing. 

It was winter and we were visiting the beach and friends when we noticed a helicopter flying over the ocean.

A little bit later we saw the whale's tail rising out of the water. Breathtaking. It then flipped over and was flipping its fins out of the water, like he was waving at the helicopter. So cool!

#3 Shark

Shark should really be one of the firsts because I live in FL very close to the most popular shark attack beach.

 I'm no stranger to these guys. 

My brother even got bite while surfing.

(He is fine not even a scar, it was a baby and it bite his foot)

But this story is unique. 

I was casting netting, which if you don't know is where you launch/throw a big net into the water with weights on it so it sinks quickly in order to capture the fish. 

(we let them go after, unless they were big enough to eat)

Anyway I was standing in water about calf deep with my 10yr old niece next to be. I looked down into the water and saw a 5ft nurf shark just sitting in the water 2ft from us. 

Needless to say I turned, grabbed my niece and ran. 

Not the best idea because you are supposed to be calm.

But I was 14 give my a break.

A few miutes later I went back having tackled my fear and stumbled upon another shark about 4ft. 

Just sitting there waiting for something, 

This time I was with my younger brother, 

I turned and pointed, showing him the shark 

and he turned around and ran. 

I guess I was no longer scared. (Kinda)

#4 Stingray

The Picture on IG shows the baby stingray I caught one summer with the cast net in the shallow water. 

That was amazing. I was so surprised when I saw it in the water and he took awhile to catch

(they are very fast swimmers)

#5 Crabs and Jelly Fish

Okay these really should have been first because I have 

been messing with crabs for years. :)

#6 Puffer Fish and Seahorse

The puffer fish I saw when I fell of the surfboard right next to it in really clear water and it puffed up. 

I must have scared it ;)

The seahorse I caught with my hands.

When I am out waist deep I look for seaweed because little fish, crabs, seahorses and other creature hid in it. 

I pulled one apart and found a seahorse. 

That was really exciting. 

#7 Manatee 

The manatee is a newer edition to my collection of crazy animal encounters. 

My friends and I were in the surf 

(where the water crashes and is about waist deep)

and all of a sudden this huge "thing" rises up out of the waves right next to us and it kinda freaked me out

(only cause I have a fear of finding a body in the ocean)

Until I saw the very manatee looking tail. 

My brother has had one rub up against him in the water.  

#8 Turtles!!

OMG this past summer (August 2014)

My sister and I were going for a walk on the beach at night and when we stepped on the sand I turned on my flashlight to see and we found baby sea turtles that had just hatched and where headed to the ocean. 

15 of these adorable guys!

Turtles head towards light so we guided them with our flashlights into the ocean.

Watching them get it by the ways and still swim towards it was entertaining.

I've had a few other shark encounters but I'll save them for another day. 

By -J 

These are just a few reasons why I love the beach. 

DIY Time

DIY Time. 

I recently started my wall of whatever.
 Well that's what I call it other people may call it an accent wall.

Basically it's a mixture of pictures, wall decor, and whatever else you want. 

Hence the name "Whatever Wall"

It's a simple way to make your space unique to your personality. 

You know when you were in middle of high school and posters and pictures 

were tacked to your walls and ceilings? 

It's a grown up version of that :) 

Sans the boy band posters. 

Start by choosing a wall that has space around it, 

A larger wall with less furniture so you can keep adding to it. 

A neutral color works best or you can use chalkboard pant 

to give it an extra level of creativity. 

Start with a color scheme of theme. 

Family and friends pictures or landscapes. 

You can even add empty frames and put books or symbols 

In them. 

Here are some examples.....
My favorite the Instagram walls. Easy to make
Just print out your IG pictures with the filters 
and easy glue them onto white paper for the Polaroid look

 Or use small white frames for a more sophisticated look. 

You also have the washi tape option. 

The freedom to make your own frames. 

Or if you want to get really crazy YOU CAN PAINT!!

Stencils and sponges are great for this type of look

Or you can go for the picture frame and trinket look

I love this one! 

Simple and easy. Plus you can make it a stand out headboard!

This is one is gorgeous. I love the words inside the frames and the mirror too.

By -J 

Happy DIY 

My favorite apps.

I Looooovvvveee my phone! 
Let's back it up a bit. 
When I started babysitting on a regular basis I was allowed to get a phone. 
I think I was 15. I had to pay for the phone and they plan. 
My first phone was the iPhone 4s which I smashed the back of 1yr after I got it. 
I discover it was smashed when I was typing and heard crushing glass noises :/ 
whoops. 
Anyway it was in rough condition. Someone knocked of a bench into a cup of water.....
And it still worked! 
I dropped it probably once a day for 2 yrs 
And it still worked! 
I dropped it in a creek in NC and didn't realize it for a few minutes
And it still worked!!! 
The home button wore out but it kept trucking along. 
In fact 
It still works! 
Any way a few months ago I bit the bullet and got the 5s. 
I love it so much! 
I'm someone who uses my phone for everything. My laptop was broken so I was sharing one,
So most of my fun Internet stuff had to be on my phone. 
I have had a lot of apps but here are some of my favorite! 
Instagram. 
Love it! If you have one follow me! @By_j.blogger
Twitter. 
It's an easy way to stay up to date with 
weather, news and celebrities!  
Phonto.
It's a picture app and I love it! 
Dots. 
This game is my jams!
Snapchat. 
Short conversations with my beast friend! 
Befunky.
I just got this photo app and it's awesome! 
Netflix. 
It's netflix enough said! 
Mathway. 
If you are a student you need this math app. 
Pandora.
I love music and I'm seriously considering 
paying for no commercials. 
Dropbox. 
5gb of storage that automatically downloads your pictures
to your computer or tablet! 
These are some of my favorites! 
By -J
Favorite or must have apps?